Question Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 6:41 pm
I just got asked out today and I said yes. This is my first time to be going out with someone and im pretty scared. I dont know what to talk about with him or what to do with him. Im a pretty shy person so I get pretty nervous when im around people I dont know to well. I really need some advice!!!!
cheche1187 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 9:12 pm: if he asked yu out he must like yu.
so i say just be yu on yur date.
if yur the real yu around him yu'll have an amazing time!
good luck!!
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advicecutie22 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 9:03 pm: Just be yourself around him and nothing should go wrong! If conversation freezes then ask questions like what is your favorite color and things like that to get to know eachother better. Talk about things that come up when you ask questions like, "what is your favorite sport?" "beseball" "o mine too what team?" "redsox" "no way me too...did you see the game last night" and stuff like that.
Lots of luck
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AdviceFromVee answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:49 pm: Well, you could start by talking about what he likes and ask him questions like if he's into sports and whatnot. Don't talk about yourself too much unless you can relate to something he said or he asks you a question. Wherever you goes are going you two will probably be alone so no one else be there to hear what you guys are talking about, so don't be shy and if you say something stupid, just say something like: "That didn't come out right, sorry!" And remember: HAVE FUN! You can never ever have fun if you are too busy worrying about what's gonna happen: just go with the flow and see where it leads you. And if he wants to kiss you good night, don't rush into it, wait till he leans in closer. [ AdviceFromVee's advice column | Ask AdviceFromVee A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:42 pm: Well if you got asked out, you HAVE to talk to him! I mean its not like he asks you out but you never talk! Talk as if he was your best friend. Look around you and find a subject to talk about. Once you start the talking, it will never end! First dates are always nerve-racking...so you should be nervous. Like the saying is "Nervous means you're ready" Just go with the flow and see what goes on from there. Show him that you're nervous, he'll get the picture that you're nervous and he'll try to make you less nervous by talking to you.
god-smusgrove answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:39 pm: treat him like a close friend (with obvious exceptions like kissing makin out all that shyt, but as far as when your around people just treat him like a close friend.) Theres not that much to it. [ god-smusgrove's advice column | Ask god-smusgrove A Question ]
kc answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 8:39 pm: Hey there (=
Let's seee, talk about what he is into. Like his favorites and his hobbies, or if he does any sports. It's a great way to get to know someone. And you will probably find out you have alot in common. I think shy people are cute lol, talk to him online, if not, on the phone. Then the next day you can go up to him in confidence because you will know stuff about him.
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