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me my friend & her boyfriend
Me and my friend have been best friends for about a year...she started going out with this guy and we stopped hanging out like we used to and yes it dissapointed me but im okay with it now. Well all of a sudden she starts telling me how they are arguing over stupid stuff and then he comes and pulls me aside and tells me the same thing. It's been going on for about a month & its really annoying. Well then her bf tells me one day that he wants to get a hotel room with me and chill and go party at the clubs all night. My friend can't leave her house because shes grounded. Well at first i was shocked but then i thought well yea that could be cool. Well the night before we went we were all drinking and since she cant leave he asked me to walk him home. so i said yea bc he lives right near me. well he started saying that if we were drunk would anything happen. i said i dont know. and then i said well i dont think u would cheat on "barbra". and he said well u never kno but i would cheat on her with you if we were both drunk. At that point i didnt know what to do so i walked him home and left. What should i do!?
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He just wants to use you, do the right thing and leave all this crap to your friend. She can handle her problem by dumping him if she knows whats good for her.
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Definently don't do anything with him.
Also, you should tell your friend. She may get a little defensive, But she has the right to know what's going on, because he could be saying things like that to other people, or even acting on it. It's better to let her know now than not telling her, and letting her find out later on.
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He sounds like a creep. You should ignore him from now on and consider telling your friend if you think she would believe you, but be warned that she may just turn on you and believe him when he calls you a liar. That happens all the time. Do not be flattered by his offer to cheat on her with you if you were both drunk. What is that really saying? He is saying that you are not worth breaking up with the other girl and going out with in the appropriate and respectful way. He is saying that he would use you for sex, cheat on a girl that is supposed to be your friend, and wants to use alcohol as an excuse to get out of the blame. This is not someone that would make a good boyfriend for anyone. If you go out with him, it will only be weeks before you are cheated on, too.
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she is your best friend you said?
then do not o anything with this guy.
even if she was barley your friend. girl code hun.
and you should tell her he was saying this stuff. in person.
just be like "look i know you probally wont want to hear this, but the other night when we were out he was asking me all this stuff and <insert what you said in question, or more if there is more here> nothing happened, i just walked him home, but i thought you should know."
depending on her reponce, which could be pissed off, hurt, not believeing you or whatever, go from there.
good luck.ask back if you need. : )
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