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getting him to notice me
well im 15 and female..
i kinda like this guy that i met at a graduation party. hes funny,nice,cute, and hes not afraid to be himself. the tuff thing is; we dont go to the same school. at first, i thought he liked me, because he always called me. then we started talking more, and now we really dont talk that much.. except occassionaly online(we met august 5th) i really want to go to homecoming with him, or at least hang out with him, but i dont know much about him, and i dont want to make it seem wierd between us. i barely know him, i dont think he has a girlfriend(and i want to ask him, but i would think its wierd because i barley know him) but i want him to notice me and for HIM to start talking to ME more, instead of me keep trying to talk to him(because i think im being annoying, and i dont want that!) please.. any help at all on this would be greatly apreciated!!!
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It sounds like you and this guy would be a great match! And you seem to have a well-developed idea of what you want in a partner. I would recommend trying to become his friend. JUST his friend... for now. One way or another you will probably end up finding out whether he has a girlfriend or not. Unless he starts to take on a more seductive tone do not flirt with him. He might need to get to know you as a person before he sees you as a girlfriend. But, if he still seems uninterested after you've tried to befriend him: he might not deserve you. You should move on to someone more worthy of your love.
hope this helps. :)
oh, and if you have any other questions about anything feel free to ask me!
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Well dear, may I first say "Hello!" I am Justin T. 18/m here to help you in your pickle!
Sounds to me like this guy really could care less...here is what I would do, the guy always likes it when the girl tries first to start a relationship...so what I want you to do is just stop talking to him...stop...see if he calls/IMs/emails you, and ask questions about him every once in a while to get to know him better...just throw a question into the conversation you know? Eventually you will get to know him...and hopefully go to Homecoming with him! (yay) but if he doesn't call, then why bother worrying about someone that doesn't care for you? Instead find some new boy toys lol.
:D I do indeed wish you the best of luck!
-JT
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