and it sucked haha but whats new? i dont know anyone in my 4th hour class and let me tell you im probably one of the most shyest people ever!! i get embarassed so easily and there are these black girls that are hilarious and they're pretty much the only ones that participate its kinda funny so i dont know what to do when we have to get into groups and stuff? also for my 3rd hour class i am friends with these two girls but im scared when we have to have partners they are gonna go with each other because they are best friends and i will be left with no one. and the popular girls are in that class they are pretty much like "the mean girls" if you know what i mean i cant stand it i feel so uncomfortable just going into the class! i mean they were on my softball team for like 3 years but its not like they talk to me now? maybe just a hi or something but not like friends.. and for lunch...you would think out of that many people one of my friends would be with me but NOPE..i dont know anyone seriously. i sat with these one people i really didnt know but talked to like twice. it was very uncomfortable and i felt very unwanted. i didnt talk once and they didnt say anything to me..i dont know what to do! i dont want to go sit with them because they will be like why are you sitting with us we dont even talk to you? i was about to cry at lunch because this has never happened to me. everyone has there own cliques and im just gonna be sitting there by myself like a nerd? i dont want that! and im not gonna go up to random people and be like hi..i dont know you can i sit with you? and all the people in my 4th hour class are pretty much freshman and even they have their own friends. i told my mom and shes like cant you go sit in your car? i was like wow im gonna be that dork sitting in the bathroom eating! i dont know what to do? its actually pretty embarassing. and we dont get off-campus lunch privilages until like 6 more weeks..
im not a nerd! i am friends with pretty popular people and im like NORMAL =) with friends! but when i dont know anyone i go insane and panic..very badly.
help? =(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? tXBLONDiE08 answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 9:23 pm: oooommmmggggg!!!! that was me the first week of school.. literally.. i had 0 classes with anyone i know and im not exactly shy.. but i dont like... talk to people unless they talk to me... so people think im really stuck up until they meet me! but so i was alll alone until i was in class and i was completely like. desperate.. so there was this "popular" girl beside me and i was like. " hi im andrea..!!" and we just started talking and i was like. " yeah it sucks.. i dont know anyone in any of my classes and i like. have to find random people to sit with" and she was like. " ommg! you have to sit with us!" so i started and now i sit with them everyday and i made like. 20 new friends who sit with her.. so its pretty cool.. and in the actual classes... i just started talking to the people next to me.. and then the people next to them.. and noww... i know like... everyone in all of my classes and im never alone!! im like one of the loudest people now too.. so it all works out!! i would try to just maybe talk to one or two people.. like.. sit back and pick who you want to be friends with.. then.. become friends with them! [ tXBLONDiE08's advice column | Ask tXBLONDiE08 A Question ]
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