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my b/f or my crush and bff?
so ive been with this guy for like a month now, but i REALLY like my ex-b/f again. like, i REALLLYYYY like him. i dont have the same feelings for my current b/f anymore. he told me that he loves me and that he would kill himself if i broke up with him. im really scared that he will, and i dont want to chance it. my ex-b/f told my friend that he thinks he likes me again; as more than a friend. and... he also told ME. i dont know who i like more. my birthday is coming up soon, and i heard my b/f got me a present already. rumour has it that its very expensive. what do i do? give it back to him? use it? or do i break up with him before my birthday? PLEASEEEE HELP MEEE! ♥
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Well, I think deep down you probably already know what you have to do: the right thing. Now, your opinion of the right thing, may be different than mine, or even someone else's. Te key is to stay true to who you are, what you want, and be respectful of other people in the process. You need to decided who you want ot be with, plain and simple. If you can't decide between the two of them, you shouldn't be with either. Just because you have two options in front of you, does not mean you have to only choose one of the two. Secondly, you need to be honest. Let's say you decided to be with your ex, in that case you would need to tell your current boyfriend "I think my feelings have changed for you, and I don't want to hurt you or lie to you, but it is unfair to you to keep this up when I may have feelings for someone else even" or something like that. The reason you have to incorporate liking someone, is because if you don't, and he finds you with the other guy, he's gunna be devastated. Secondly, you need to tell your ex, that if he does like you, he needs to respect you and wait until you have stuff squared away with the current boyfriend. Ultimately, only you can decide what to do, just listen to your heart. And also, as far as the present, you shouldn't accept something like a promise ring or anything from him, but if it's like a purse or something, sure. Now, you should tell him before your boyfriend. Good luck. :)
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