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Did I fall off the face of the earth?
My situation is quite confusing. I'll start from the beginning. I'm 17 years old...and will be 18 in 13 days. I developed feelings for a guy at work over this past summer. He is 24. Keep in mind, I am a virgin and plan on staying that way for a long, long time...and he knows this.
He always treats me with kindess and respect...and has the ability to put a smile on my face no matter what. He is the ideal guy for me. Well, I am terrible at keeping things a secret. Apparently, I made my crush a little too obvious.
When he found out that I like him, he completely shut me out. I can't even go near him. It's as if I'm invisible. I thought he was mad at me. I asked someone if he was, and they said that I flustered him. That isn't exactly a good thing. Basically, he's going to stay away until he's comfortable around me...especially because he's afraid to lead me on.
What do I do? What does this mean? How do I fix this? Even if I don't have a chance romantically, I need to know how to fix our friendship. I've known him for over a year and for him to completely shut me out like this...it's killing me.
I'm in desperate need of help. Please, any advice you have means the world to me. Thank you in advance <3 :o)
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I would suggest that you steer clear of him as well. Let him have his space or things will get worse.He obviously cares about you enough if he is making an effort to not lead you on. Just give him some time to clear his thoughts. In the mean time you can focus your thoughts on something different...Cakecheckers if you want to talk.
Hope I helped. :D
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well try writing him a letter telling what you told us tell me it was hard not to like you you and it is even harder not to be your friend.Make sure he gets it go right up to him and say read it please with your best begging look on your face. in the note you may say please meet me at ___________ at this time ________ i will be waiting for you to rekindle our lost friendship if you do not show up it will hurt me but i will get over it and will still wait for you untill you can be my friend. i am sorry you found out i liked you but i hope that doesnt mean we will lose our friendship over it.
I hope i helped goodluck and if you need anything else my email is mizztalk_alot@hotmail.com
~nikki~
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Well, I'm guessing that since he's 24 and you're right now 17, and if he leads you on and goes out with you it could easily lead to a criminal offense. Maybe he wants to wait until you're 18. Or maybe he just wants to keep it a good friendship. Admit it, even if you turn 18, it's still 6 years of difference!
You're probably going into college, right? There will be lots of guys there for you to meet. Don't hang up yourself on this way too older guy.
You should write him a note saying that you really want to be friends and you're feeling bad for pushing him away. You really want to stay friends with him and that you want to make up somehow.
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