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what can I say to my parents to convince them to let my boyfriend move in. He is a little older then me but sense they wont let me move out with him I really want him to move in here. I love him alot and I get really emotional at night when im not with him and me && him have talked about wanting to move in together.
So what are some things i can say to my parents to have them let him move in?
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Hey. Well first of all you are to young to have a say in letting your boyfriend move in unless you are at least 18. But still, if you are still living in your parents house at 18 they have the say. Once you turn 18 you can move out but I would move somewhere really close to home. Also, even at 18 you are very young to be living with your boyfriend. I would wait until you marry or at least get engaged. Just remember to be responsible my friend :).
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You need to be an adult before you can move in with him. He needs to be an adult and have a way to support himself, without mooching off his girlfriend or her parents. You are emotional at night....this is a bad sign. Definately, you should not move in with anyone until you are woman enough to be okay with being alone. How much older is this guy? When you are eighteen you can do what you want, but for now missy, you need to obey the rules! Ha-Ha.
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Well, you didnt say how old you are. And until you are 18, they pretty much have the full descion on this one. When your 18 you can legally move out..
And since it is your parents house, they make the rules. They probably dont want their daughters boyfriend to move in with her at a young age because well for one..its their daughter, they probably dont want to know what would go on if you moved in together. And they probably dont want another mouth to feed..its like having an extra kid. They probably dont want the extra responsibilty. And if you break up they would have to deal with him moving out.
So if they say no, theres not much you can do or say to convince them until your 18 and then your an adult and you can make your own descion on moving out and starting your own life.. Until then, you will have to just try and work around the rules.
Maybe try and look for a place close to your house? So you can go over there more often, yet still come home so your parents are happy. You will have to compromise with your parents until you are the legal age of moving out, then you can do whatever you want.
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