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jelousy
my friend and i liked the same guy but he didnt like me back. He confused me sometimes because i wasnt sure if he liked me or not, untill last night he asked my friend out. Now she is all happy, and i am left hurt. IT absolutely kills me inside how he picked her over me b/c of the age difference (she is 2 years younger) she is 15, and how i am his age. SHe even knew that i liked him, and we made a lil truse that we wouldnt be obssesed with him, now she's with him.
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Ok I don't have the kind of advice you might be looking for. But here it goes. You have to get straight up with your friend and tell her that she really hurt you inside and right now you are very upset. You need to say you know I liked him so why did you have to go and go out with him you really hurt me. Or if you don't want to say that saywhat is on your mind as long as you get your point across to her so she knows that she really hurt you inside.
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I think she should have at least thought about what you would be feeling and how you'd probably be hurt and all before she went and just decided to go out with him. She should've at least tried talking it out with you about it and asking if you felt comfortable with it. She doesn't seem like a very good friend at the moment. But it's your decision wether you want to continue the friendship with her or not. As I say,"dicks before chicks?" or "chicks before dicks"? :P Just talk about it with her and see if she at least apologizes for hurting your feelings and not talking about it with you, and then think of if you want to continue being friends. But as for the guy, forget him. If he's going to let two girls get mad over him, he sounds like a jerk. Don't worry. That guy might not be your guy, but you'll find your own someday, who'll be better than him. I hope I helped. <3
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well think about it. if you were in her situation and he liked you and asked you out would you say no cuz you made the truce?
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She shouldn't have at least take the consideration to tell you she was going out with him,ask if you're okay with it,show that she cared about your feelings but I guess not she's not a good friend,so you should not be hanging out with her no more,you are valuable yeah so he picked her but it doesn't mean there won't be a guy for you,one day deception will come her way, she'll feel your pain,you know that saying that goes"what goes around comes around",it's true too,don't take for what happened as much importance,she should apologize,feel guilty,but anyways she'll regret it for sure.
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