Hi- I'm a 16 year old male..
I have a crush on this guy in my english class-
We really hit it off the first couple weeks of school.. but I'm not sure if/when to ask him out..
He seems like he likes me just as much as I like him.. but I'm not sure if I should ask him out-
should I?
I have these dreams about him.. where we are sitting on the beach- kissing each other.. and he's got his shirt off.. and so do I... and we are feeling each other's chests.. and having a great time.. HE's SO GORGEOUS!!!
but I'm not sure if I am just having sexual feelings for him or if I really like him..
I mean.. he's always saying, "You're so amazing, Jeff," and stuff..
And if I ask him out.. should I take him to my place to "hang out" and maybe make out in my bed?
kiron591 answered Friday September 1 2006, 10:14 am: well i think you should go for ,the worst thing he can say is no,then you could still be friends.And if he says no just ask him to hangout with you,youll never know what could happen
Elcee answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:58 am: I suggest that you begin by talking about the things you have in common and perhaps suggest going for a coffee somewhere or maybe even taking in a film together.
I know that you feel you want to jump right into a full-on relationship with him, but I think that would be too much too soon. You really should get to know him better before going all the way.
As with all new relationships, everything is exciting and heart-pumping and I really hope that your dream guy feels the same way.
Remember though, if you are going to make out with him, please use condoms for protection against STDs. I wish you all the very best. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
Annerszz_101 answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 11:09 pm: Hmm well have you tried talking to him about how you feel about him? If you're nervous about confronting him about it, try giving him hints and THEN telling him your feelings. and about the taking him to your place.. try taking things slow.
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