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I need a GUYs opinion--PLEASE?
14/f
What do you guys consider as flirting? I'm a girl and I'm a tomboy sorta. I'd rather hang out with guys (because there is way less drama then to hang out with girls) play video games with them, joke with them, and ust basically do things with them rather than girls (keep in mind that this is all rate PG stuff)
And everytime I make a guy friend, they end up wanting to go out with me and I rather just stay friends with them then to go out and ruin the friendship. And so I say no most of the times and I feel bad at the end because I said no (I know I shouldn't) and I've hurt them.
And then when I do want to go out with a guy (that I usually don't hang out with...don't ask why. I just can't do the whole hanging out thing with my crushes)he 1)doesn't want to because he's intiminated by the number of guy friends I have or 2)breaks up with me because I end up spending a lot of time with my guy friends.
The question is how to I attrack fewer crushes from my guy friends and more from guys I do like?
p.s. what's with the guys and tackling? they know i have like no strength whatsoever and they just tackle me (not hurt wise but friendly wise)
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The reason you probably can't "hang out" with the guys you have crushes on is because you are not as comfortable with them as you are the guys you dont have an intrest in. You see, around the guy friends you dont "like" you arent trying to impress them and you arent worried about how you acting or what you are saying. You have complete confidence, and THAT my dearie is why they are attracted to you.
It is the same reason why the most popular people are popular. They are confident, they arent worried one bit about what others think of them. And thats what people want, ironically, is for people not to care about thier opinions.
So, when you are around the guys you do like, my advice would to be just to imagine they are just one of your friends and be cool and confident liek you are with everyone else. That will make and keep them drooling.
*AE*
PS- any gut is going to feel awkward if you have like 100,000 guy friends. It just screws with their males egos.
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