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shy? 15/f
I really like this boy, he likes me back (we both know it) but were not going out yet. Heres the only problem, were both pretty shy. Well when i get to now people im really outgoing and crazy but around him im still kinda shy and so is he. So the relationship really is going far. So heres my question, should i keep tying to make it work or is it pointless?
Also were gonna hang out this friday. We have never hung out alone (only with our group of friends)so im nervous. Any tips? like talking and stuff, I dont want there to be awkard silent moments.
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Nah, keep the relationship going. He'll open up and (as you said) so will you. The more time you spend together the less foreign it will feel. ]
Congrats on you guys hanging out :) It can be very tough sometimes when you both are shy. I know this might sound very hard, but tru to overcome your shyness, not a lot, but just enough to get a converstaion started. One of my tips, is that, if your having one of those awkward silences, i just ask "sooo. . . .what's your favorite kind of ice cream??" Everybody loves ice cream, and boys love it that you took the first move in starting a conversation. He will answer, and unless he's a jerk, he'll ask you yours. Then you could just ask eachother your favorites and stuff, and he'll see how much you might have in common, and like you even more ;) ]
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