Hey,
My sister is 12 years old & i just found out something that disturbs me a bit. She kinda has sex with a bunny.. but not really.. she leaves her pants and underwear on and everything and she puts the bunny against her genital organs and kinda like humps it.. she moves up and down and she says its pleasurful and she likes the feeling of it. Is this normal for a 12 year old to havce urges for this kind of stuff? & can this be harmful..?? Please help me.. I dont know if she young to have a vibrator.. so what should i do?
contradictionn answered Monday August 28 2006, 11:03 pm: Is this a stuffed rabit? A vibrator? Or an animal?
If it's a rabbit, that's kind of disturbing.
But, yes, it's completley normal for children in general to want to expierment with their bodies, from day one we start to feel our bodies and explore them, learning what feels good and what doesn't. [ contradictionn's advice column | Ask contradictionn A Question ]
Jodieee answered Monday August 28 2006, 9:44 pm: It is NOT normal to want to hump rabbits.
Is it a real rabbit or a stuffed one.
The urges are normal..but shes taking them out the wrong way. If this is a real animal..its animal abuse. Only other rabbits should hump rabbits. [ Jodieee's advice column | Ask Jodieee A Question ]
bubbles251 answered Monday August 28 2006, 9:08 pm: You should not get her a vibrator cuase it will encourage her for more sex,maybe if you explain all the stuff to her about sex she might grow out of it if not try to keep bunnies away from her maybe she will stop
ScratchesOnTheWall answered Monday August 28 2006, 6:43 pm: Yeah it's totally normal for her to have those urges at this age but you might want to suggest she use something a little more...clean to play with. I'm assuming by bunny you mean an actual live rabbit and they tend to be less than hygienic what with living in hutches and all. At the end of the day a vibrator is cleaner than a pet but isn't really necessary if she has hands.
However I think that's the only part you should really even begin to be concerned about here. A straw poll among my friends suggests this is a pretty average age to start masturbating and people discover it in all sorts of weird and wonderful ways.
She still sounds pretty innocent about it all so if you had a word with her now it sounds like t would be minimally embarrassing for the both of you as opposed to waiting until she's an awkward teen. [ ScratchesOnTheWall's advice column | Ask ScratchesOnTheWall A Question ]
naturally_sadie answered Monday August 28 2006, 5:58 pm: I would have to say thats normal. She's going to be a teenager within a year so her hormones are kicking in and its completely normal. She's just masturbating, everyone does it and its nothing to worry about. As long as she's not doing it with guys, just let her explore. She's too young to get a vibrator, but I don't think she won't need one for a few years anyway so that won't be a problem. Don't tell her you saw her doing it because she might be embarresed,its normal to be worried but shes just exploring her body and giving herself pleasure and shes not hurting anyone so its not bad, right? [ naturally_sadie's advice column | Ask naturally_sadie A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Monday August 28 2006, 5:19 pm: What she is doing is called masturbation, which is when someone stimulates their genital organs for pleasure. It is completely normal and nothing to worry about. You have to be over 18 to purchase a vibrator, so she is too young to have one. Don't worry about it, what she is doing is completely normal and is not harmful. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
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