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How do I deal with my so called friend?
OK... Well My my friend Alyssa (name change) we sorta met this past year!!! Well me and her made plans to go see Barnyard together for the first time since we both collect cows!!! Well when it came out I was at camp!!! So apparently she went with another person!! Well you would be mad too wouldn't you? Well I asked her who she went with and she just got all snotty, and I think that maybe it was this girl that I don't like!!! But the thing is she doesn't seem to get it that I care if she like this girl or not!! Cause I'm not going to try to tell her to ditch her!! I just want her to be honest with me! But all through the summer she hasn't been making any effort to see me!!! Is this friendship about to end or what? PLEASE HELP!
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It seems like your friend Alyssa doesnt trust you. A friend that trusts you wouldn't get all snotty and not tell you the truth. If you REALLY want her to be your friend and REALLY care about her, talk to her. Tell her "HEY! I know your mad at me, but i'm not sure what I did wrong. I really care about you and you're my friend. Can you please tell me whats going on between us. I really want this friendship to work." If she wont listen, write her a note, email, or best- talk to her mom. I was mad at my best friend for a month, I got soo sick of it I talked to her mom, her mom talked to her, and we got back together again. You have to tell her that it doesnt matter if she went with another person. ((I wouldn't be mad at her if she did, I would understand, because she would want to go really badly but you were at camp.)) She's not trying to replace you with another person, I'm pretty sure she wanted to go badly, but you weren't there. Talk to her and tell her that you trust her, but how can you guys be friends if she doesnt tell the truth and not be all snotty.
I hope I helped!!!
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