Usualy when my boyfriend comes over we just end up watching movies but i want him to have fun when he is at my house! I dont have much things me and him could do around here so I would really apriciate it if you guys could give me some ideas!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? SilentOne answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 5:21 am: Hi,
Doesn't your boyfriend find watching movies fun?? The way you put your question..."just end up", makes it sound like perhaps there is a lack of immediate ideas on what to do, and so one of you suggests watching a movie. Or maybe by now it's become a bad routine.
There aren't many things to do? Well, as the first person suggested, ice-skating and bowling are prime out of the house activities to do with someone else. But I think there are a lot of things you can do around the house. Does your boyfriend talk? Play a game of 20 questions with him, or perhaps truth or dare. Dare him to kiss you if you want him to. Turn on some music and make him dance with you, or teach him. He's got no excuse, as there's nobody else watching...
Cook things together (Parents tend to like this one, as long as the results are ok).
Ask him to help you redecorate your room (Or force him to tidy it up with you!) I guess that one depends on how you think it would turn out (if it would be more fun than watching movies), but it would teach your boyfriend where you put stuff in your room.
If he picked up something which had a history, you could turn it into story-time.
The sense that I get from your question is that your boyfriend isn't really bothered by watching movies, but you would like it better (and feel like it was more fun for both of you) if you were doing something else. In that case, if you end up watching a movie again, press pause, and ask him if there's anything He would rather do. Maybe he's got some ideas.
naturally_sadie answered Monday August 28 2006, 6:10 pm: Well, maybe you guys could try going out somewhere instead like to the mall or ice skating or bowling or any kind of activites like those. If you can't get out of the house, maybe you could play sports or take a walk around your neighborhood. Or you could always go to his house and do something. Yeah, I hope this helped!
Greyskate answered Monday August 28 2006, 5:31 pm: umm well if theres some sport he likes you could try doin that or you could ask him wut he wants to do. but i doubt he hates doin w/e you two do if he comes over. if he didnt he probably would just ask to do somethin else. most guys dont care as long as they can be with there gf atleast if they really like them. [ Greyskate's advice column | Ask Greyskate A Question ]
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