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i would appreciate it so much if you could please help me with these problems that are all compiling together. please. i don't know what to do. i have no clue
#1 (family): ok. i am so confused. i live with my mom and my grandparents. my dad left us and he's the biggest jerk ever! when i was little, i had big problems with my sugar levels and he was always out sleeping with some other women. but, he's suppose to bring child support every month, and he doesn't. and we're having finantial problems. my grandparents are nice. we have like this family business. but, my mom works from home. and every time we sell a car (thats the business), everyone gets paid a certain amount of money, and sometimes, people don't give my mom the money that she needs to pay for all the things she has to (like school). and i noe this shouldn't be my problem, but it's really effecting me. i don't know what to do. and my mom, instead of being worried about this, she's only concerned about how she could make my life as less private as possible to the point where she can count the amount of times i blink during the day. it's really driving me crazy. and she's always fighting with my grandmother because of the rest of our family that doesn't give us the money that we're suppose to be getting. and then she always says that she's gonna sell the house we have for rent, but we can't bc we can't afford another house, and all this big deal. and everytime i say something, i always have to be reminded that this isn't my house and we are living here thanks to my grandparents. and i'm fine with that and everything, but i can't live like that anymore. i leave to school from here, do homework here, take showers here, sleep here. this is my home. but, i'm starting to feel like an intruder
school: I HATE MY SCHOOL! WITH A PASSION! it's a private school where the tuition is like 20,000 dollars a year! it's full of all these like rich little snobs. but, the only reason i go there is because my mom has finantial aid. but, she also has to pay for books and this year there were three text books, so it was a little more expensive, and they didn't give her the money to cover it. and if they dont, they'll take away my books. if i don't have books, i can't do well, so i wont' be able to go to the school that i really want to go to! i might transfer next year God willing! it's the same as my school, but less expensive, and i know the people there, and they are so nice. they love me there. and the work is not so immensly difficult as it is here. here they give approximatley 8 hours of hw every night. thats the normal amount of time, but obviously it takes longer
idk. it's just i don't feel good about all this. if this can't be my house, i have nowhere else to go to call my own. this is all just so confusing. please help me
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ok no one's answered this question and it seems like you really need an answer. you really can't do anything about your family fighting unless they want to. talk to your mom and grandma and tell them how this is effecting you...especially your mom. tell her how she's making you feel like this isn't your home and now you feel really insecure about it. even if it isn't owned by your mom it is where you live like you said and if she isn't letting you feel like you belong there then you end up feeling lost like you are so for the time being she's just going to have to except that that IS HOME. as for school also talk to your mom about transferring. hello, if you stop going to the rich-kid's school you hate so much you'll have more money in theend right. so oyur mom won't have to worry so much about that. bottem line-talk to her.you have to vent to someone who can make things better or you'll stay confused. i hope things get better.
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