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MEN!!!!!!!
Why do men lie so much!?!
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Everybody lies to one degree or another. For example I tell you I've done my homework because I want to go to the movies. I'm only hurting myself w/this lie. What you must look at is what type of lies are you willing to tolerate or live with. Personally speaking the previous answer that a guy gave you would not be a lie I'd be willing to tolerate. That is someone who doesn't understand how much this type of lie will hurt if his girlfriend finds out on her own. He doesn't understand how much this type of lie is hurting his relationship w/women in general. He doesn't respect women and doesn't think we are worthy of a true close relationship. I also don't think a guy like that should make any kind of committed relationship with anyone if he intends to see other people. It would work best if he just told someone that he liked dating them the most, but was going to see other people from time to time. He'd be honest and what he doesn't get is if a girl really liked him she'd always be on her best behavior (another kind of lie) to keep his interest. What he's doing is childish and immature, and since he's young it probably fits. A major problem with this mentality is that these guys usually carry this into adulthood and think it's ok to do as adults as well. Guys that think like that are not guys you want to make a commitment with and most especially a home with. They will forever lie to you about what they are doing or where they've been. They'll go out w/their friends a lot and tell you it's just the guys when actually they are up to other things such as other women. If caught they will tell you that it's to keep you from hurting, but actually it's just to make it easier for them. They do this so they can glide through life doing whatever they want regardless of how it can hurt two women not just the one they are married to. They are all about making life easier for themselves and it doesn't matter about anyone else. These are very selfish people. Are all guys like this? No. There are lots of guys out there that would never do anything like this to anyone. They have respect for you and will love you the way you deserve to be loved. You will find one...you just have to sift through the dirt to find that gold nugget. Good Luck!
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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Obviously, right now you're hurt and not thinking too straight. We've all been in this position at least once in our lives. Though, there comes another point in which you have to realize that all people lie. Not just men or woman but, everyone. It's harsh, sometimes deadly but, you have to learn how to cope with the fact to better deal with your problems
-BlackBatman-
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