|
An unwanted love
Ok I have this friend who is a guy and i am a girl, I have know him for the past five years, and we are good friends but he has changes in the past few years..he got into drugs...bad. Well long story short he ask me out a few weeks ago and i said no. He got really mad/hurt and is telling how he is sleeping with other girl but pretends it is me. It really creeps me out. He been asking me out like once a week for the past 3 weeks. I feel like he is stalking me. Like everytime I turn around there he is! It scares me. I don't know what to do. Please help me. thank you!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well obviously he may be under the influence of drugs when he's telling you these things. So lay down the law. Talk to him in person and tell him that it's either drugs and sex, or your friendship of five years. If he wants to keep the friendship with you - he will get some help. If not - he's not worth hanging around with anymore. And if he keeps bothering you, just have your parent or guardian call his parents and even though he may get mad at you for telling on him, he needs the help. Hope I helped!
]
YES! I'm proud of you for saying no to him!
Anywhos 5 years is a long time and it's awesome. Drugs aren't. What was he thinking of when he started them? They shorten your life, they're not attractive, and they certainly don't feel good when you're coming down. Don't ask how I know.
You really should sit down with him in a public place like a playground, pool, mall, movies, etc. Okay, well not movies. Tell him that you want him to here you and not to interrupt or get mad right away.
Tell him that you value the friendship and that you don't want to lose it on some relationship that's not gonna last forever. Friends will last forever but relationship break up and that will leave you two with an awkward position. Tell him straight out that you like him as a friend and no more. And that you want to keep this friendship. And about that drug problem...it could kill him easily. Get facts about the drugs he's taking online and tell him about him. Tell him that he's gonna have to quit or you're going to have to tell someone so he can get out of the drugs. That may and will be hard but it's better to lose a friendship rather than a friend. You need to tell him that he needs to stop asking you out because a no is a no. And about him stalking you, tell him to stop.
If he doesnt, I suggest you break off the friendship because he doesn't respect your choices
]
Tell him to stop asking you out because its ruining your freindship of 5 years and to stop taking drugs or itll END your freindship.No means no.He cant force you into going out with him.
]
More Questions: |