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We broke up and a week later I'm with someone else.


Question Posted Tuesday August 22 2006, 11:25 pm

Ok, Well I have been dating this guy Sean, since October. We've said the I love you and all of that. Well the other day he told me that he never gave me his whole heart, and most of it was still for his ex. Yeah it killed me, so we argued for awhile and then I broke up with him because he thought "it was for the best". Now, this guy Brandon, asked me out and I said yes so I could forget about my now ex. Well, I IMed my ex, because we still talk some and he told me that he was extremely pissed at me. He said that it was wrong of me to get another boyfriend, a week after we broke up. I told him I only got a new bf, so I could get my mind off of him. I would cry myself to sleep everynight and all of that. Well, he tells me that he does too and that he didn't want to forget about me so he didn't know why I wanted to forget about him. I was seriously, MADLY in love with him. So now he tells me he can't take this anymore, and he assumes that me and my Boyfriend now, had something going on when me and my ex were together. Which isn't true. I love my ex, and I want him back. But I have NO IDEA on what to do.
Help?


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MelLeDisko answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 8:20 pm:
I wouldn't go back out with a guy like that. I mean, how could he just sit there and tell you I love you and then admit to you he didn't give you his whole heart and THEN get mad whenever YOU try and move on? I think it's stupid. Because if you go back out with him, the whole situation could easily repeat itself. I had this happen with one of my boyfriends, we didn't go back out even though he wanted, but we remain good friends now and he's not even dating the other girl he liked anymore. And now I realized what he did was really crappy and I'd never think of going back out with him even though whenever he did it, I would've done it in a heart beat. I would just give it a shot with this Brandon guy. I mean, he could be a really sweet guy and all, and you might be missing out just because you're thinking of your ex who hurt you pretty badly. I hope I helped. <3

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zoey365 answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 9:07 am:
i dont think brandon would like it very much if he thought you just went out with him to get over your old bf you should decide if ur ex is too possesive i dont no him but thats what it sounds like to me if he really is just mad that you dated someone a week later he mite be ok be carefull though he could get abusive tell me who you choose
&hearts;hope this helps

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caramella answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 5:36 am:
Wheres your dignity?He said he didnt love you that much and you want to go back?I would rather DIE than go back to a guy that said he didnt love me much.Move on with your life and stay with your new boyfreind.Your ex is just mad that he lost the toy he used to play with and now youre with someone eles so he wont know what to brag about to his freinds anymore.He doesnt cry himself to sleep.Hes one bad lier.You have to tell him that whats between you and him is over and that you can get a new boyfreind whenever you want.Hes not your father,he cant tell you what to do.

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