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I don't know what I should do!


Question Posted Monday August 21 2006, 8:51 pm

My friend, Kelsey, is always talking about her so called best friend behind her back and how much she hates her because she always copies her. About two months ago Kelsey said that she wanted to play the guitar but she ended up never taking lessons or anything. I was at my piano teacher's house and her daughter plays the guitar and taught me how to play a song and it was really fun. So, now I really want to take lessons, but I'm afraid Kelsey will start talking about me behind my back and say that I copied her. She'll find out I'm taking lessons no matter what because we are always around each other. Any ideas on what I should say to Kelsey when I tell her I'm taking lessons?

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xO_b_r_i_a_n_a_Ox answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 1:54 pm:
If you want to take guitar lessons, go ahead. That's too bad for her if she thinks you're copying her. She's probably just concieted and thinks everyone wants to be like her. Don't let her control what you do. If i were you, I wouldn't even be friends with her. If you're always worrying if she'll talk about you behind your back then she's not worth being friends with.
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fabulous11 answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 1:15 pm:
Well talk to her baout it, say that your teachers duaghter taught you to play a song and that you think its really fun so you wanna do it. Then maybe since she wasnt to play you can teach her and you guys can like do it together.

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caramella answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 11:00 am:
Just tell her that you were at your piano teachers house and her daughter was playing the guitar and it caught your attention,so your taking guitar lessons now.She can say what she wants about you copying her because you KNOW youre not.I dont think shes a good freind though.Because if she talks like this about her BEST FREIND,theres no reason WHY she wouldnt talk about you.Trust me,the same thing happened to me before.

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Volleyball2150 answered Tuesday August 22 2006, 2:45 am:
just tell her "if i was coping you, i would be coping even more things about you." if Kelsey wanted to play the guitar 2 months ago, why would you start coping her 2 months after?? wouldn't you have started coping her like right away? tell her that. tell kelsey that she's your best friend and that you would never want to copy her, because if you copied her, you would be a clone of her, not her friend. She'll understand

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