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my friends are sayin that one of my good guy friends likes m
ya when i saw one of my old guy friends that i havent seen in 2 years we were just chillin and stuff and we were jokin with eachother like old times and when i was on the phone wit my 2 best buds they were sayin that he liked me and i started to laugh and i asked them what made them think that he liked me and one of them said did u see the way he was actin towards you and im was sayin that he has been always like that towards me and i wouldnt believe them because hes one of my good friends and i really didnt listen to them and i dont want him to like me so i dont know what to believe but i know for sure he doesnt like me that way but what should i do anyway?
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I had the same kinda thing happen to me, and what i did was tell him straight out what my friends said, but in a joking manner. I was like .. " Can you believe _____ & _____ they have this crazy idea that you like me?!" and then by his reaction I could tell it was true. I was in the same situation as you (not wanting him to like me that way) so asking that way let me know whether it was true or not, but at the same time let him know, in a way that wouldn't hurt him, that I could never see him as anything more than a friend. He just laughed it off with me, and now hes happily engaged and we're still best friends. Im also really glad I went about it that way, because there were no hurt feelings, and not too much awkwardness. Hope that helps, and you never kno maybe hes the perfect guy for you (in my case he wasn't...but u never kno)
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I think that you should talk 2 him about it.Ask him if he likes you as a friend or like a girlfriend.
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dont do anything unless he tells you he likes you. in that case, tell him nicely that you only think of him as a friend. if any of your friends ask, say you dont like him like that. just be truthful about your feelings because it will work out for everyone best in the end.
good luck (:
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