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Relationship issue.
Hi.
I have been dating this guy for almost three
months now, and his mom doesnt want us dating.
We arnt even allowed to talk on the phone and we've only been on one date.
but were both 14
what should i do?
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Try to talk with his mom tell her that you would be a great girlfriend and to just try and let you guys talk on the phone just to see how it goes!
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You could always talk to his mum. Form a relationship between yourself and his mum.
You have to see it from her point of view aswell. She's probably worried sick that her little boy now has a girlfriend.
You need to earn her trust. You could get your boyfriend to ask his mums permission for you to go over his house for tea one night and then watch a movie or something.
Maybe even watch a movie with his parents, don't smother all over him to start off with because that wont give her a good impression on you.
If you show her that you are a nice respectable girl she will respect that and she will then, hopefully let her son see you more!
Hope I helped.
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Sounds like you need to win this guy's mom over! She may not want her some to plow into hot and heavy relationships just yet, and so she is trying to delay him dating. Try to earn her respect and trust by complying with her wishes. If she finds out you and her son are breakin the rules, she will most likely never trust you together. Let her and this guy alone for a while. If he still wants to see you, he will continue to ask his mom for a way to do that. She may eventually agree to group dating, chaperoned dating or visits etc...It may not be ideal, but it is a good starting place.
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