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my sister is a boyfriend stealer
My sister is a boyfriend stealer. She went out with my boyfriend when i still liked him and she almost had sex with him. Now my sister is trying to steal my best friend's boyfriend away from her. Her boyfriend and my sister say there is nothing to worry about but when they are online talking they say things like she wants to take a shower with him and she wants to have sex with him. We tried talking to her but she always says she only likes him as a friend. What should we do?
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Ignore her.
It takes two people to cheat. Yes, your sister is being a brat and a bitch, but no one 'steals' a boyfriend. Boyfriends leave. They decide to cheat.
If you friend's boyfriend is going to cheat on her, it will happen eventually, no matter what you sister does or says. She might provide him with the opportunity to cheat, but he still has to choose to do it.
If her boyfriend isn't going to cheat, then it wont happen, no matter what your sister does or says.
If your friend can trust her boyfriend when he says there is nothing going on, that's great. If she can't, she needs to not be with him. It really isn't about your stupid sister at all! It's never about the 'other women'; it's about the two people in the relationship. Your friend is going to have to figure out what she really believes is going on, and whether she is willing to be in this relationsuhip.
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okay first of all, i know you tried this, but talk to your sister. say, we know what you are doing so dont try to deny it and it is very wrong and immature. she must have self-esteem issues if she has to steal her own SISTERS boyfriends & her sisters best friends boyfriend to make herself feel better. you know that saying chicks before dicks? tell her straight out that what she is doing is very wrong, and tell her not to deny it. if she doesn't change or realize the problem, when you get a new boyfriend don't tell her about it - she's probably only attracted to your boyfriend of the time because she wanted to have the pleasure of stealing him away from someone. so just keep it a secret. hope i helpedd
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