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how do i give him a sign?
im 13/f
Well, to make a long story short..
There's this boy I've been crushing on for about a month now. I'm going to spend a week with him at his house for vacation with a whole bunch of people and i just want to know how do i let him know i like him? i really wanna go out with him but the thing is i've never really had a REAL boyfriend. and i haven't hooked up yet & i'm pretty sure he has. and if he asks if i've hooked up before do i say yes and lie so he'll hook up with me and think i'm experienced? or do i say the truth and say no and see whatever happens from there? I really need to let him know how i feel but i don't wanna make it obvious, i wanna keep him guessing. he's 15. what are some ways i can play hard to get and flirt with him? PLEASE HELP! xox
& btw, what are some signs that boys give to let them know they like a girl.. i really really realllyyyy like him, so please make this work! <3 thanks guys
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Honestly, there's nothing anyone can say to get this guy too like you. Don't lie about anything...if you want this boy to be your boyfriend, you need to be honest. Also, don't go any further than what you are ready for...you are only 13, if you do something you're not ready for...you may wind up regretting it.
Just act like yourself...flirt with him, but don't throw yourself on him. Be subtle, but let him know you are interested.
Signs boys like you differ from guy to guy. But, they give you a lot of attention, lots of eye contact, a difference of tone when he speaks to you. It really depends.
I know this is pretty useless to you, but this is just something you have to just be yourself...remain confident and hope for the best. You can't pretend to be something you're not.
Well I wish you luck.
--Teacup
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Well,have you ever talked to him normally before?If you have then just wait for him to be alone one day,then walk up to him and start flirting.Just make sure he dont have a girlfreind.To play hard to get this is what you do,while flirting,do it perfectly but then be the one who says,"nice talking to you,hope we can talk again soon"and walk away.That way youll make him want more.If you never talked to him before,then walk up to him(with a freind if you want)and introduce yourself or have a freind introduce you if youre too scared.First off lets start with the flirting...first thisng,you neeed to start off slowly,dont go up to him the first time you talk to him and tell him how you feel or your life story details since you were born.Just play it cool.Give him your cutest smile,a freindly comment(cool shoes,i love them!!)ask him questions,listen more than you talk,pay attention to everything he says and ask questions outta his answers,and put the focus on him,dont go off talking about yourself too much and forget about him,or youll end up admiring yourself alone.After that goes well,just smile and say hi when you pass by him but not too much or youll freak him out.You should always be the one to walk away first,so you can leave him wanting more.Dont dress too exposed(in clothes that show off too much skin)remember,you want him to keep guessin how you look like and want more of you.To give him signs that you like him,make eye contact,smile,give him the up and down look(while smiling),laugh at his jokes,and always look your best.Make sure youve shaved any unwanted hair,moustache and stuff like that.Make sure you dont smell bad either,you want to look gorgeous infront of him!Well,hope this helped and tell me if it goes well!
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First of all, don't lie to him so he'll hook up with you. Never start of a relationship with a lie, because sooner or later he will find out, and then he'll wonder if he can trust you. Flirting with him is the best thing to do. When you're talking to him, look him straight in the eye, smile a lot (and if he smiles back a lot it probably means he likes you), when you're talking to him lightly touch his arm when you make a point and find other reasons to touch him. Most of all, have confidence and don't put yourself down so he'll say you're pretty, guys like girls that already know they're pretty.
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that's a great guide to flirting tips and signs that he likes you.
I hope it all works out for you, and most of all have fun flirting with him.
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