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im always their friend..never the GIRLFRIEND
16/f!
heyy =) well you see i was hangin out with my cousin and her friend (well now i know her pretty well too) and her friend amy hangs out with these two boys jake and nick. well nick is so adorable! but i think he likes amy. everyone else thinks so too! like he will kinda flirts with me even though we only hungout like 3 times now and he knows amy well but like tonight we all hungout and amy was actin all mad or sad and nick was like all worried like amy whats wrong and he would give her all the attention (like im guessing he likes her) i know amy didnt want the attention and was really upset or mad about something but i wish he would like ..flirt with me more and everytime i would like touch him or something he would be like what are you tryin to do cop a field? and im like uhh noo. but he like kinda jokes around alot but doesnt know that he has to say JUST KIDDING for people to know even though we told him to. anyways its nicks birthday tomorrow and we are suppose to hangout with him and jake and like his older brother and cousin. im kinda jealous that amy is getting all the attention. i know i shouldnt be so selfish but im not use to this and amy always gets the attention too so its kind of like both of us want it but only one of us will get it. it ruins my day and they invited me to go with them and i want to because i mean i have fun but then im like oookay i dont want to watch them flirt the whole time. im use to getting the attention and i LOVE it dont get me wrong most of us do but i just dont know! people say im really pretty but ive never had a boyfriend/never been asked out. everyone is always in SHOCK when they hear that ive never had one but i have madeout once. i feel like im not the girlfriend type or something im just always friends with all the guys. i flirt so much too how can i be more of a relationship type girl more than their friend?
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Hey,
First of all, i don't mean to seem mean or harsh, but its too obvious that nick likes amy, and that when he flirts with you, it doesn't really mean anything ,its just his sort of way of talking to girls, he likes to fool around and flirt and stuff. But he likes amy and he cares about her so much. So let me rephrase this, why don't you stop wasting your time running after a guy, who is actually , running after another girl. He wants her, and just like when you said, that you and amy both want attention, but that just one of you will get it, let me tell you something. She will get it, and she is already getting it from nick.
You can't run after love or force it to come. And its not that guys never ask you out or that they only take you as a freind.
Its just that if you keep waiting for love, it will never come. If you keep saying that you are always freinds with the guys and you just keep on flirting hoping that they would ask you out, then love will also never come that way. Love comes when you least expect it, it comes when it is supposed to come.
I am sure that you are pretty, and that you are a really nice person, and alot of people love to hang out with you, so maybe if you try to forget about love and flirting and dating and being asked out ,for awhile, love would come to you by itself. And one day, you will have to meet a hot guy who will actually give you all the attention and love you so much.
And not just because guys flirt with you, does it mean that they like you. These are guys and thats there attitude and thats also there way of having fun.
So give yourself some time, and give love sometime, and soon you will have someone to be with. so don't worry and try to consider what i said, and don't think that i am being mean or harsh, i am just telling you the truth and the right thing to be done.
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