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Changed for the bad.
Sorry this is way longg. But id appreciate any help.
In the eighth grade i met my bestfriend. She was in the Seventh grade. Then i went to highschool & we never really talked anymore. only a little. When she finish Junior high she went to a different highschool then i did. Remember she was a real good girl & never did anything wrong. Seriously.
She lived with her grandmother & her dad. Wehn school let out for Christmas break she decided that she wanted to visit her mom & her grandmother didnt like that & kicked her out of the house. So she went & moved in with her mother. Well her mother has a son With a different guy. My bestfriend & her stepbrother(i think thats what he is) became veryyy attracted to eachother. As time went on they ended up having sex alot ( almost every night. & she would tell me herslef that she would have sex with him) Her stepbrother Had a girlfriend. i didnt tell her that it was veryy digusting & wrong that she was doign this.
School started up Again & she was starting at a new school. She got a boyfriend not long after starting at a new school. Not even a week after meeting him she already had sex with him.
School ended for summer & her mother, brother & she moved To another house 5 hrs away. She did her tenth Grade year at A different high school. She had plenty of boyfriends & had sex with another guy. & her brother Alot.
at the end of her tenth grade year her brother moved Across the states to cali. To live with his dad. & My friend didnt want to live in the house without him so she moved back with her grandmother.
Now that i told you her past. Now heres the present. Shes now in the 11 grade & at the school she sepnt the first part of her ninth grade at. She clomplety Blows me off & ignores me. She has this guy friend that i know That is in love with her. But hes not popular or cute. But shes really rude to him & it hurts him what she is doing with her life. She tells him that he is one of her bestfriends & even has it on her myspace.
This was my bestfriend for Two years & she changed her life around for the bad. Shes turned into this fake girl that only the guys like Because shes hot & skinny & they only want her for her body.
How do i tell this guy that he shouldnt let it bother him & how do i tell her she changed for the bad and Her realy friends hate her for changing like this?
Sorry againf or it being way long.
But anything you have to say is great.
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Tell him that she is not a good person. Explain what she has done in her past. Tell him shes not worth chasing around. But the truth is its really hard to get a person to stop loving somebody else. You can give it a shot though.
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Jess
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I'm guessing that her parents are divorced and her relationship with adults are not going too well. She could be just getting into sexual activity as a way to escape from all the drama she has in her life.
But she has to know that when she does this, she's losing her respect for other guys while getting STDs and pregnancy. She can be addicted to sex later on in life and that's not a good thing.
And having sex with her stepbrother is wrong. They have the same blood in them (from their mother) and just plain out yuck.
And her reason for blowing you off it maybe be cause your parents are still together (i hope) maybe she's jealous because guys treat you nicely and not just for sex. In the end, she is probably envious/jealous of something you have that you may not realize.
And tell this guy that she is facing her drama in a way that she shouldn't. Even if he likes her, he should move and not be tied down to this girl that is way sexually active and is mean, rude, and nasty. She has chosen this as a way of life: sex, stds, pregnancy, etc. And I'm pretty sure that this is the way she relieves her stress and drama and that he shouldn't try to change that. He can say some things I just said above to her. Tell her that he cares about her and that she deserves more than guys who carry STDs.
Tell him that if this chick keeeps on hurting him, he has no reason to care for her. She wants him out of her life and he should respect that and move on.
I hope everything goes well for you, your friend, and that chick
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