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this might be gross but i really need you help. i have a bladder condition. its uncontrollable and when i go to the bathroom, 5 minutes later if im with friends, they probably would say something funny and i would pee my pants. i use all of my pad that i use for my peirod in my underwear when i am with my friends. its too embarrassing to tell my mom because she never notices. i can't go to my doctor because im too young and can't drive yet. idk what to do please help.
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There really is nothing to be embarrassed about, it is far more common that you would think. If you don't want to use medication, you could try something called pelvic floor exercises.
When you have to pee normally, try to stop half way, the muscles you use to do this are the ones you need to exercise. You can do this anywhere as no one will see what you are doing. Try to do this several times a day for the rest of your life and you should be able to build them up so that this does not happen again. Also if they are strong and at some point in the future you want children, it will make it easier to recover strength in that area, as it is usually affected by pregnancy and labour.
It is hard to do this and to have the discipline to continue but it is worth it and you should see the results of it in a month or two.
Hope that helps and good luck.
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you should definently tell your mom, and don't be embarrassed about it sweetheart. she's probably the only one that can help you the most. once you tell her, she'll take you to the doctor hun.
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hey there!
its okay you shouldn't have to be embarrassed about telling your mom. you dont have to tell your friends but please talk to your mom about this because she can help you by bring you to the doctor. your mom probably doesn't notice because she doesnt know thats why you have to tell her. dont worry your mom isnt going to make fun of you.. hope this helps!
-manda
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It seems that you have a bladder control problem. It's nothing to be ashmaed of. It may be a surprise to you but many people have that problem. Not just you.
There is a medicine that helps you control your bladder perscribed by the doctors.
You need to tell you parents about it and go to the doctors. I mean you do not want to be using pads everyday in your teenage life, do you?
I know it's rewally embaressing to tell your parents but it's not as embaressing if they found out for themselves.
you're not too young to be going to the doctor so go and get your perscription. I'm sure the doctor has something for you
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