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Question Posted Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:31 am

Hi, I'm Rosie, 13. This boy said he really likes me a few days ago, and so I gave him my number. The only probolem is, my freind is the only form of contact, and she talks to him for hours on the internet when I'm not there. She has already proved that she is jealous by saying that she doesn't want me to meet her new boyfreind over insecurty of losing him to me. I think it is in her head because she is really attractive and nice. I just think that if I did end up going out with this boy, then I would feel uncomfortable with them talking about god only knows what on the internet. He's not the type to talk about me in a nasty way, it's just that she is.I'm planning on cooling it down with her, as I don't think that I can trust such a close relationship with her. She could be stirring up anything. Should I confront him, and tell him that it makes me feel uncomfortable? I'm scared of sounding controlling.

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Lola answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 3:58 am:
Listen , if this boy really does love you and care about you and your feelings and the thing going on between you and him, then he would never dare look at another girl or talk to anyone other girl about something inappropriate, so i don't want you to worry at all, because as long as he does love you, he would never do anything to hurt you, and this is a guy we are talking about, he can stand up for himself and tell her to fuck off if she tries to do or say something not good or bad or try to break up whats between you and him.
So i think you should try to cool it down with her ,and take a step back in your friendship, because she doesn't really sound to me as the perfect or true friend.Neither do i think that she is someone who could be trusted.So don't tell her anything or trust her with anything and i am sure that you have other good friends and you don't need her as the form of contact. YOu can talk to him yourself and call him and go out with him, and just act cool and natural.
Goodluck:) and if you need any more help or advice ,please be free to contact me.

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