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pretending...


Question Posted Tuesday August 8 2006, 9:57 pm

i always pretend to be someone im not, cuz im afraid that if i show people who i really am they wont love me anymore, i smile when im crying inside, and i lauf when im dying inside. i cant tell anyone of my friends why i moved away b/c i know they wont understnad. they wont understand the realmee.. everyone sais to stop beingso afraid but if they knew why i am, they would undersytand..
x0x-living in hiding


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Genrawks2 answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 10:05 pm:
Ok first of all: Keeping it all inside is NOT GOOD. Like as much as you don't WANT to let others know the real you, you have to open up to other people. Let people try to understand you, yknow? You can't call someone a friend if they don't know what's going on with you. Real friends are there to help you.

Second of all: I can't really help you because I need to know the real problem. What can possibly be SO bad that you're living in your own shadow? SO bad that you "feel like you're dying"? A LOT of people go through bad stuff. Some people who seem super happy even go through some. But that's the kind of people who don't let it affect them. You have to try to do that. No matter what it is, try not to let it affect you.

x Hope I helped.

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