My ex boyfriend broke up with me and I know he still likes me but it is a sticky situation. Long story short his ex wont go away and he does some stupid stuff that hurt me.
1st question - how can I not give in so easy. He did something that hurt me bad but when i saw him i couldnt help but love him and want him and he kissed me which he hasnt kissed me sense we broke up! but ive only seen him twice sense we broke up. I dont want him to think he can walk all over me i want him to kno its me or nothing and that when he makes plans he has to keep them
2nd question - I dont have much money but i want to dress and do my makeup (not to much makeup) and hair a little more sexiier / prettyer. I just want him to be like WOW when he sees me and i also want to feel better about myself so i am more confident around him. what sorta things can i do with my look to make him begggg for me backk?
3rd - what can i say to him to make plans with just me and want to come and have him come to me so i dont take the risk of getting ditched.
Remember, he is your ex for a reason. If you keep letting him take advantage over you, you're just making a longer road for him to walk all over you. I'm sure you can get better guys than him! So maybe it'll be just better if you were off without him.
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Go bargan hunting with your friends. It's fun and cheap. Try on all colors (red, green, blue, pink, yellow) Ask your friends which color looks the best on you and stick to that color. Want to look cute? Go for a summer dress or cute shorts with a cute tank top. Wanna look sexy? Get a skirt and a sheer blouse and wear a cami underneath.
Also, NEVER buy hair products such as gels and stuff from the stores. They will destroy your hair in a snap. Never cut your hair by urself (unless you're a professional) and go to a salon. You don't have to have a dramatic change. I can tell you what look will look the best on you if you send me a really current picture. otherwise, I can't help you on the appearance part.
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Be mysterious. Don't say what you're gonna do straight out. Just give him bits and pieces. If you want to have fun, be flirtatious. Keep things interesting. Plan way ahead so he can't make up an excuse to not have time. Find what keeps him attracted and what will keep his attention. Once you do, use it to hook him and never let it go. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
saleeha answered Thursday August 3 2006, 2:35 am: well you should lay it straight to the point. go up to him and say that if he wants you then he has to stick with you or else he can't have you. you just have to show him that you are strong and independent. and you WILL NOT let someone walk all over you.
well one thing you can do is go to the salon and ask them what they reccomend...they usually do make up and hairstyles for cheap and they also reccommend good things to make you look out-of-the-way pretty. and you can always look at magazines or online to see which styles are unique and in. i'm sure he'll be crawling back to you in no time. [ saleeha's advice column | Ask saleeha A Question ]
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