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hello doormat
how do you know when someone is using you?
im not talking about completely obvious situations and stuff. anyone know more subtler ways? (duh they ask you to only do things when they want and etc etc etc but some people are cleverer in their ways to disguise that)
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this is a very good question.
Manipulation is gettign what you want by using others,perhaps even by doind nothing, btu being around at the right times.
however to produce a desired result, a person could you any number of methods,ex. blackmail, false relationships, telling rumors..
suppose a girl wants a date with a boy her "friend" is dating, she would then use maniptulation to get that result. first spreading the lie that the boy is fast, and does'nt care what the girl thinks, and wait till her friend mentions hearing it. then she would place a condom or other such in a place the "friend" will see... she becomes( hopefully) afriad, and leaves the buy, lettign the other girl sweep in, and leave the "friend" because the job is done.
hope that straightns it out.
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