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birthday invites
i have this friend who whats to come to my brithday but she flrts with everone! and i have HOTT guy friends comming and idk what to do b.c my best friend is best friends with her and i am not and there asking me to invite her but my borther and his girlfriend is saying its your party and you dont what her there then dont invite her i dont know what do do HELP!
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hey! You could talk to this person and tell her to not flirt so much because it does bother you. Or you could just not invite her, it is your party and you can do whatever you want. Don't let the confusion of inviting someone that is annoying get to you. Think about it for 10 minutes one night, and then decide, do i really want this person at my party? Forget what everyone else says, and think for yourself. If you truely don't want her there, don't invite her, and if she confronts you about it, tell the turth. Don't say "oh I had to shorten the list because there was too many." or anything like that, because when she finds out you lied, it will be worse. So if she does talk to you about it just be like " well I really didn't want you there because you're too much of a flirt and I don't want anyone getting mad or jealous of you at my party and complaining to me about it." or something like that. Be calm and relaxed about it, don't get angry and don't let her get angry. Tell her you're sorry that you didn't want her there and that she should tone it down a little with the guys.
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