Hey, 14/F
i was bestfriends with this boy in school since about the 6th grade and after a couple years we started dating, we dated for about 5 months and i have to admit it was a great realationship he broke up with me because i guess he didnt "like me like that" anymore i was honestly devistated. He said he wanted to be friends after the breakup but that didnt seem to work out, i think it was a little over the top when a few days later he decided he hated me am i right? Anyways i cant get over how i lost such a bestfriend over a dumb relationship/breakup. We have just started like talking again ive tried hooking up with other guys but nothing feels rite all i can think about is how much i miss him and want to be with him...
wtf is wrong?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Alexandkendra answered Friday July 28 2006, 4:16 pm: hey,i'm sorry to hear about this.
But to start out there is NOTHING wrong with you what so ever.Being friends with him for a few years and then dating him for a 5months explains why you care about him so much.What i dont understand is how he can go out with you for 5months and then all of a sudden he doesnt like you like that? And i'm sorry to tell you but after a break up of that long you can never just go back to being friends.But i would ask him one of these question's "Remember how we use to be before we went out?" or you can just say flat out say it "i miss you and i want to be with you and you might not feel the same way but i dont care" because whats the worst that can happen?.But the truth is you can hookup with all the guys you want,but in the end youll still always feel the same way about him.
i hope i was somewhat a help
and i hope i made you feel better a little much more
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