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My Parents
For the last couple of years my parents have been figting more and more. I don't really get along with my dad but I get along with my mom like we are best friends! So... my mom has this friend and we tell my dad we are going to dance class , but we are really going to his house! He is a really nice guy! My mom says that my dad and her will be divorced soon, and that we will move in with this other guy, but they will not get married. I really like this guy and I know that he will be better for my mom! Buy the way my dad hates this guy. Should I be worried about what my dad might do when he finds out we are living with him?
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This could be kind of dangerous expecially if he find out that you are lying about dance classes. You just have to make sure your dad isn't a dangerous or jealous type of guy... if he is then maybe you can suggest going into a witness protection program
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I wouldnt worry about it until the time comes.
if your mom is happy and you really like him.
I dont think your dad should care,I'm sure they will talk about it like adults.
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I wouldn't worry about your dad a whole bunch. If this new guys is better for your mom, that is what you should be focused on. Of course you should still make sure your dad is happy and he may be hurt when he finds out about you and your mom moving in to the other guys house. That's natural, everyone would be. But, he will get over it, because he will also want the best for your mom. You need to look on the brightside, I mean maybe he will find a woman! Good luck with everything and drop one in my inbox if you need more help! <3
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If your mom and yourself really like this guy, then I would say go for it. You dad should be happy that you've found a nice stable place to live, with someone who cares about you. And of course he is going to hate him, that's like a given. He might feel threatend by this new guy, like he might take his place, or be a better provider for you & your mom. But if you want things to be good with your dad, when he finds out that you guys are going to be living with this new guy, just let him know that HE is your dad, and even though your are living with someone else, you are still going to love him no matter what. I think your mom deserves to be happy, since things didn't work out with her and your dad.
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I'm glad that your mother has found something that makes her happy but that is no reason to disrespect your father like that. I can't believe she behaves in this way, and so blatantly, in from of you. What a terrible influence, I hope you have other adult role models in your life.
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