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Obession
Hey!
I Dont know this might sound really stange but ill give it a shot.
It seems like i get obsessed with people and it is really werid to me it has always been another woman who is older than me. I am a fourteen year old girl.
Ex1. I had this friend named Amy who worked with my mom she was 22. Since my mom lives at her work and i live with her i would see Amy everyday and hang-out with her on her breaks and stuff,
It came to a ponit where i would ditch my other friends to go and be with Amy like i would say "oh, i just have to go tell her something, ill be right back" and leave my friends and would forget about them because I was happy to be with Amy. Then after about a year She quit her job and i didnt see her, but she promised to come back and visit me once a week she came once and didnt come again like she said she would. Then after a while i found myself just hating her and not wanting to talk to her on the phone or anything like that. I dont see her very much anymore.
Ex2. The Counsoller at school, Ms.Shima was someone who i would talk to almost once a week( somethimes less). I really liked talking to her and listening to what she had for advice i was haveing a really rough year so i would sometimes try and talk to her more often. I would go up to her at recess and see if she would have time during my free period to talk with me and she would say "oh thats fine, sure!" so then i wouldgo to her office at the time we set aside and she wouldnt be there or she would be talking with someone else. I understand that at school its not like you have a real appt. but then later in the day she would see mee and say " oh sorrrryy i forgot, is tammarrow okay?" the first time it happened i kind of just shrugged it off the second and third time it made me a little angry. But when i did get in to see her it always made me feel so much more at peace and relaxed. Now that it is summeer i feel like i am haveing withdrawls from not being able to speak with her about things.
I wont be able to talk with her nest year either since i am going to be a freshman but a specail cousoller it going to come to my highschool once a week fr me to talk to, but without Ms. Shima it will be really odd.
SO I DONT KNOW THIS IS THE WEIRDEST THING I HAVE EVER ASKED AND SORRY FOR THE LENGTH.
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OK you are not really asking a question here, you are simply stating your behaviours and feelings towards 2 people and suggesting a pattern of behavior. What exactly do you want to know. I can't help you if you are not clear with what you need help with.
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