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ugh friends
sorry if this is long.
ok so you see me and this girl were like soo close for the past 2 years.. like insepratable. like s4l's . but last year we got in a big fight, well actually we didnt even fight. we just werent friends anymore. it was so weird how it happened. but i went to sit at a different lunch table and next thingi know we arent friends anymore. she said it was cuz she got close with this other girl. but i was thinking " why would i wanna be friends with someone if they just would leave me for someone else" and than like everyone started to not like her. but a lil bit ago. she became friends with my best friend well one of them and my vfriend use to hate her too. but liek the sad part is. i really miss my s4l and being so clsoe with her. like maybe she wasnt the best of friend and all. but than again she was. and i dont knwo what to do. i know talking to her probably wont do any good cause i dont know if she feels the same way and misses me. cause she doesnt show it. but than again i dont either. and plus if i do become friends with her again all my frie4nds will probably be like OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS ! .. becuase they dont liek her either and they were close with her last year too. but like i dont want to clsoe them either. but i dont know what i should i do.. or if i should just keep on trying to forget about her and move on. i dont know how much advice you can give me but please help me. ill rate <- promise !
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well i have had best friend problems too. i sometimes miss my friend but if you really wanna be friends with her you shood at least talk to her even though it will be weird. and your friends shoodn't care whether your dating a guy who picks there nose they shood be like ok well we'll give her another try and don't ditch those friends for her or anything because you never know wen you'll need them again. right a letter to the friend you want back or try to make plans so you both can talk.
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The same thing happened to me. What i did is at first i was all mad about it and then i got close again . I did this by talking to her about stuff me and her liked now me an her are like sisters. Get her something for her birthday. Dont get so close inb one day. It will take a little while. But if you were friends for along tme you know what your friend like. Get her something for her birthday christmas and other holidays. Get togethor on friday nights and about your other friends DONT drift away from them. There your friens to you cant forget about them. Invite them with you to the movies with u and your friend. Also invite them all out to eaor sit with you at lunch and maybe just maybe theyll all become friends. Signed Speedy0301 good luck!!
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