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today my boyfreind came over and i took everyones advice and tried to talk to him..
it was just way too awkward..
every five minutes we would say something like..
whats your favorite color? or stuff like that..
every ten minutes we would talk about hair.
ugh
but i ended up giving him head..
i really dont like this
should i break up with him?
or give it another try..?
PLEASE HELP
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I don't know what earlier question you're referring to in this post, so perhaps I'm missing some of the background here.
But from this question taken alone, it seems to me that this relationship isn't exactly healthy.
If I'm understanding correctly, he doesn't want to talk to you, he just wants to get his sexual satisfaction.
He's USING you without any regard for your own feelings, as if you were an animated blow up doll.
Essentially he's using you to masturbate himself because he's not making any effort towards a relationship. Real love and sex involves the mind, not just the genitalia.
In a real relationship, your partner's wants and needs matter to you. If you'd rather have a conversation than give him oral sex, he should respect that.
You can try to talk to him about these things, that you don't like to be used like you were a sex toy without a mind of your own.
However, my impression is that he's an insensitive clod and that you won't be able to get through to him in any meaningful way.
If that is indeed the case, you should certainly break up with him because your relationship is going nowhere good.
Best wishes.
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i dont want to sound mean, but you two seem more like fuck buddies...
but you can keep on trying to start conversations&& stuff; but if you are actually asking if you should break up with him, there is something inside you that wants to break up with him.
there might be another guy waiting for you.. but if you really like this guy, stay with him.
idk if i helped :
just do whatever feels right.
muchloveDANNI♥
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Dont end things yet, wait until you guys feel more comfortable around eachother and things will warm up more. If you let him go now you might regret it later, and you dont want that happening. So just give him another try, and you will start feeling more comfortable and have more things to talk about. Sometimes its not even bad to talk about your favorite things just to get to know eachother some more. He probably feels the same way as you, so help him out a little and strike up a convo about anything, he wont think your wierd, he will feel relieved! hope this helps:)
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