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Home life is unsatisfying!
Ok im a 15/f who lives with my grandmother. I have lived with my mom for 15 yrs. My mom's house is not amusing enough for me and has no one there for me so i moved to my grandmother's house were I was closer to friends and had more entertainment. Well this summer I have been going to my dads and that is making it where I dont wanna go back to my grandma's and by the way Im going I will run out of place's to live before I even move out on my own. How can I satisfy my home life?
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Hi
I hope when I say this you won't take it the wrong way...because I do mean well.
I think the problem with your living arrangements have more to do with what's going on inside you, than it does with who you're living with or where you are living.
Being a teenager is unsatisfying in most cases. In the back of your mind you're always considering your options of where you'd like to live. This happens because you have the options. Your mom, your dad, your grandma. I bet the majority of your friends have one home and one option and that's it! I bet they also make the best of it.
I think you need to become happy and satisfied within yourself, and stop looking for different living arrangements to achieve this. If you are having problems, whether it's with friends, or activities, no amount of moving is going to change that.
With that being said, there is nothing wrong with wanting to live with your father, and if that's an option, then give it a try. Just know that if you don't resolve whatever issues you are facing within yourself, then living with him isn't going to change anything.
You're 15...enjoy life, be happy, fill your life with positive things and people.
Take care,
Brenda
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Well is there any way you can live with your dad instead with your grandma?
If theres a chance, then try talking to your grandma and your dad about it.
And tell them your growing up, your fifteen, and I know that you just want to get out and explore and hang out with people.
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