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Sex urges?
OK well im tired of having sex its so over rated. its boredom for the price of pregnancy or worst. Lately i have been making poor choice's this one guy I have had sexual encounters with and he doesnt have any condom's and I have trouble saying no because's I have these urges how can I get past them so I can be safe?
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ooh its hard!!! Just think about the screaming baby at the end of it... thats usually a big turn-off!
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You need to start carring condoms with you!
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"OK well im tired of having sex its so over rated. It's boredom for the price of pregnancy or worst."
Apparently your guy isn't doing his fair share of the work here. Sex is very enjoyable, and it's not boring unless something wrong is happening in the process. I'm not telling you to have sex, i'm just telling you something isn't right if you thinks it's not enjoyable.
When you say "urges" i'm not quite sure what you mean. If you mean urges to have sex, then it can't be that boring for you. There isn't much you can do to get past it, accept convince yourself it is boring & unenjoyable. Think about all the bad things that can happen from him not being protected. I know it's hard, but you just have to say no. I'm sure you've heard that about a million times from tv commercials, health class, and your parents. I'm very much aware that it's easier said then done, but just try. That's the only thing you can do.
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I am very glad that you've learned to be open with the true facts about sex. The reason you are feeling as if it's overated is because you aren't sharing this with someone who you've been close with for a very long time.
But you are very right when you mention that you are making poor choices. When you don't use a condom, you are really playing with fire.
About the urges: Tell this guy you're having sex with that you want to stop. Now I know he will probably still come onto you and try with you, but thats where you have to come in and be strong. You need to just think about how much you want to turn these bad choices around and that if you say no, you'll know it's right because you aren't risking pregnancy young. There will always be times when you know that something isn't right and it's your job to be your own big sister and help yourself out by saying no. The urges may there, but it's normal, the important thing is how you respond to it.
-TheTeenGirl
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you could always masturbate, it will help you make the urges less. If you really want to hae sex with him xan you buy condoms? or get some from a friend or ask him to get some?
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I donno if it'll work, but picture your self with a big belly 9 months pregnant/delivering a baby/ carrying a baby around.
Think of how everything will change if you do get pregnant, etc.
hope I helped.
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