alright, 15, female, i'm 5'3, and i weigh 180 lbs. I know that's like, extreamly over weight, but i dont look 180 at ALL, i ahvea bit of a tummy, that im' trying to loose, and my tummy is shrinkin, but my weight isnt? well, I have big boobs, like c, almost d. idk if thats normal or not, but I aslo feel like guys are always staring at my boobs and not ME...idk if i'm mental or what oO
1. is there any way to attract attentino to ME, not my boobs
2. how can I loose weight, i'm not having issues with my tummy, but my weight in general
sassysara answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 3:20 pm: Ok first of all it is very possible that you don't look your weight as everyone carries weight differently. As for guys looking at your chest welcome to being a woman, if I had a dollar for everytime I have had to tell a guy "hey my face is up here" I would be a very rich woman! As for attracting looks to different areas of you body i.e. you face, then try not to wear tops that draw attention to your chest.
As for losing weight keep in mind that muscle weighs more then fat, so if you gain muscle it may not show on a scale that you are losing. The GI diet works really well if you need support while dieting weight watchers is awesome. Cut down on the junk, sugar, lower your carbs and increase your water intake. Walking and swimming are some of the best exercises to lose weight. Having weighed almost 400 lbs by the time I was 17 and then losing 290 lbs I know its hard but you can do it! Get support from your friends and family. Most importantly learn to forgive yourself when you make a mistake and eat something you shouldn't everyone does it and it doesn't mean you have to throw out all the other hard work you did.
holahayley56 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 2:44 pm: First off. Even though you don't think you look 180 pounds. You probaly do. Some people, that have a very high self esteem [it seems like you do] don't see who they really are. When there standing in the mirror. If people don't ever be honest with you like parents, & don't tell you that you're fat. May be one of the reasons why you don't think you are. But, I'm going to tell you something..
You are.
Personally, I don't consider your chest that big, because I'm turning 14, tommorow. & i'm a 40C.
Drawing attention to yourself, that is one of the things, most guys usually look at. That & your face. or your ass. You're face is a good thing for them to look at first. If you're pretty. But, make up can make you attractive easily.
You can loose weight, by dieting. & eating healthy. I don't suggest pills. They can actually make you gain weight. Skipping meals also makes you gain weight. Dancing for an hour makes you lose 300 calories. If you don't get enough sleep, then that may be a reason why you eat alot. If you really wanna go on a diet, I suggest the atkins diet. Check into it.
pinkers answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 2:35 pm: I would look online at different diet plans and suggestions...and do cardio (biking, swimming running). That will loose weight everywhere, and not just target one area. hope i helped. [ pinkers's advice column | Ask pinkers A Question ]
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