|
Being in Control
Ok so, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a long while now it all feels really good but it seems as though the more times we have sex, the less he can control himself!
We've talked about it and know its a problem, he's tried everything he just can't do it!
I hardly get a chance to 'get into it'
We're both open about it and can talk to each other about it, i've tried helping him but he just can't get it together!
I love him so much and he loves me and i'm being so patient with him, he appreciates it but he also gets embarrassed.
How can I get him or what can he do to hold his load or be in control of when he cums?
Thanks :)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Hi there...
Is he very experienced?? This could also be contributing to the problem. What he needs to work on is self pleasure but making it last for as long as he can.. or self pleasure and not cum at all.
This will build up his strength. It's all about power and mind. He needs to teach himself how to hold out. Control is the most important thing here.
I'm glad your being patient, that is important in a situation like this. It's going to take time to get himself to be able to control but practice is important. Your could even help out with the self pleasure thing. You could be the one pleasuring and just before he's about to cum, stop. He'll calm down then start again!!
If this does not seem to help, he may need to start looking for professional help. Just make sure before he makes any decisions in regards to any nasal sprays or medication, he get a second opinion. That's just as important as patients.
Hope I helped, good luck :)
]
Have him tell you when he's getting ready to cum and pull down on his balls. If that doesn't work, pull out.
]
This happens a lot, especially with younger guys. Lots of foreplay might help you "get into it" more but it almost always takes us longer to be satisfied than it will them. Take it slow and try to be patient with him. Most importantly, make sure you are protected or you will have a little baby running around and won't have the time or energy for sex! :)
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>> std
|
|