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Okay so...i gave my boyfriend a hj and haver he jizzed he washed his hands and dick..then he took his penis out of his pants to put a condom on so we could have sex...then later he fingered me. from touching his dick even after washing his hands could i get pregnant? (link)
No. Sperm doesn't last long outside of the penis...especially if his hands have been washed and his dick has been cleaned.


If both me and my boyfriend have never been sexually active(which is a known fact) can either of us contract an STD if we don't use a condom? Also I'm on the pill. For the birth control bit. (link)
Yes. It is possible to contract an STD. STD's don't ALWAYS happen with sex. Some people can be born with STD's from passing through the birth canal. Also, if either one of you have cold sores in your mouth, that is called herpes simplex type 1. Once you have this virus, it will always stay with you. Just to be safe, both of you should go to your local clinic and get checked for any/all STD's.


Just wondering... But what is a blowjob? (link)
A blowjob is when your mouth goes on a males penis. To do this, you take the penis and insert it as far into your throat without gagging yourself. use your hands for where your mouth cannot go. it helps to put your top lip over your teeth to keep it from scratching the penis. Guys like it when you sallow-if your planning on sallowing, then have a glass of water by your side because it's thick. (Fact-sperm is good for your skin whether you sallow it, or if he cums on your skin)


my bf is 17 and when he gets an erection his penis is bent over to the right hes insecure about it i told him not to worry its normal isnt it? (link)
Yes. This is quite normal.


Ok,
So I had sex with this guy about four days ago.
He didn't use a condom, but i'm on the pill. Now I'm starting to get paranoid and I think I have herpes or some other type of STD.
My vagina is burning a little.
And I can't tell if there are sores on my vagina or not.

Please give me some advice on what it might be, or what I should do about it.
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go to your local clinic and they'll run any/all tests on you with the swab of your vagina. It can be something EXTREMELY serious.


It is hot for an athletic type girl to have a really nice body? I've been told I have a 'sick' stomach (sick as in like crazy good ya know). And I've been told that my arms are jacked. Is this hot, or not right cause I'm a girl? I'm 16. (link)
If you have a 6 or 8 pack-it's not hot.
If you have really buff arms-it's not hot.
If you have really nice buff legs-it's not hot.

However, if you have a flat stomach, no giggle on your legs, and when you wave your arm, it doesn't flop around TOO much, then your in good hands.


Do guys like it when the girl takes charge sometimes? .. like where to hang out for example. (link)
No; for most part. Guys like to take charge when/where to hang out because it makes them feel like their calling the shots. However, guys do like when girls take charge in the bed....it shows the woman that she has power.


15/f
my friend for the first time had to makeout with a guy because they were dared. anyway it looked really awkward, she was basically just sucking his lip. it was really really awkward.

what i wanted to know was(i havent kissed a guy yet) but how do you do it right! and not all slobbier. (link)
You kiss how you kiss your hand. You start off with NORMAL kissing, then you begin to open your mouth a little bit, slowly putting your tongue in his/her mouth a little bit. Don't stick your entire tongue in his/her mouth. that's gross. TELL THE GUY IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT. If he's using too much tongue, which you'll know (slobber) then tell him to take it easy and not use SOO much tongue. they'll be thankful for it later. promise.


ok this girl is my friend, on of my good friends and we went out twice but each time we do she leaves me for her ex. But i don't know what to do. the first time we just went back to being friends and things even though it ended badly with all this complication and stuff but i forgave her and it wasnt her fault and whatever. but this time she promised me it wouldn happen etc. but it did. so i feel kind of like an idiot. so i dont know should i just forgive her agian because i want to, like shes my friend,or atleast supposed to be but a part of me thinks well why should i be there as a friend for her after all this.Kind of like well why should she get the benefit of my friendship kind of thing....if that makes any sense. what do you guys think?

thanks (link)
Someone hurts you once-THEIR falt.
Someone hurts you twice-YOUR fault.
You let this happen....she's obviously not a good friend, because if she was, then she #1 wouldn't use you as a toy for whenever she wants. and #2, if she did use you as a toy, she wouldn't go back to her ex everytime. Time to find a new friend. Unless you're into the drama....which you are because you still think that you should be her friend. Good luck.


Ok so, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a long while now it all feels really good but it seems as though the more times we have sex, the less he can control himself!

We've talked about it and know its a problem, he's tried everything he just can't do it!

I hardly get a chance to 'get into it'

We're both open about it and can talk to each other about it, i've tried helping him but he just can't get it together!

I love him so much and he loves me and i'm being so patient with him, he appreciates it but he also gets embarrassed.

How can I get him or what can he do to hold his load or be in control of when he cums?

Thanks :) (link)
Have him tell you when he's getting ready to cum and pull down on his balls. If that doesn't work, pull out.




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