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i have talked to my mom about everything.. and she just ingornes it and says i'm over reacting.. as far as getting to knwo the guy i've known him for years... ..they used to be just friends.. and i have never liked him.. he touches me way to much.. and treats my lil brother and sister like crap.. they don't even like him.. he's really a lot younger than my mom and really immature.. his own sister doesn't want her kids around him unless my mom is around.. and his mom told my mom she needs to get out while she can.. i mean thats got to say somethin.. but i never had a relationship with my mom b/c of her ex. and then we actually got close.. and now he's taking that away from me again.. and it really upsets me.. .. and he thinks everything is about him.. i have an eating disorder and my family knows about it.. so i don't eat sometimes.. well the other day he got in my face yelling at me saying that me not eating wasn't gonna get rid of him.. and i just looked at him and asked him if he ever thought everything wasn't about him.. so he grabbed my arm and jerked me up from the couch and tried to make me go to my little sisters room.. and i said something to my mom and she said there was nothing she could do .. like she was scared.. how is that supposed to make her happy ?
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Hey,
I am really sorry the advice didn't work out last time, but its really nice of you to come and tell me what happened, therefore i thought of something else, and i want you try it out, and please try the things i tell you, because it could work.
Now you may have talked to your mom and she said that you are overreacting, and your mom maybe afraid of that new guy and can't control him to treat you guys better. But on the other hand, your mom still loves you and cares about you, and i am sure that she wouldn't dare make him raise a hand on you or hit you or slap you or anything of such,So please don't worry.
i think that maybe this guy has either never dealt with children before, or he just totally hates children, but either ways you still have a chance. Listen to me, there isn't a person who you treat really well, and respect him and obey him, and he'd just hate you and hit you and yell at you and be mean to you. I don't think thats possible, except in movies and fantasy life.
So maybe if you be extra nice to him, and trying getting him something nice, as a small gift or something, maybe even your sister and brother could join in to help you with the gift, and you'd tell him how happy you are that he is joining your family, just say anything that can please him, and try to sit with him, and talk with him.
And about your mom, tell her that you are not over reacting and that you are really upset about all that, and its making you feel down, and that you are trying hard to make him be nice to you and to like him, but he's jut not giving you that chance that you are giving him.
So,consider what i said ,and if it didn't work out, please be free to contact me, because i have a suggestion i could tell you about ,but only if what i said didn't work.
Goodluck :)
P.S: you sent me the letter 3 times, so i will only answer once.
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