ok. well my friend.. shes had boy problems. and ive helped her through all of them. now, my dad was diagnosed with cancer. all she says is IM SORRY. doenst help me through it at all. her best friend is going to california for the rest of the summer. and i cant have my friend avoiding me like this for the summer. its not right. i dont know what to do, and i cant talk to anyone about it. i need serious help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? GateKeeper answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:31 am: Alright, well now after all these times that you've helped her she might feel that their is no way to help in your situation and all she can so is apologize, she may feel vunerable or helpless to aid you, therefore i recommend you tell her that she doesn't need to be sorry and you just need a friend, and that friend is her. If i am wrong and that's not the case i suggest calmly sittng down with her and talking about why she's avoiding you, i bet she isn't exactly enjoying it herself.
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GoodLuck, your father is in my prayers
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