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parents and their ways
ok my parents are are divorced now and have been for a while now. I live with my mom and i go to az to vist my dad every summer for 1 mounth. I hate going to my dad because he is always trying to change me. I doesn't like the way I talk becuz i don't use proper grammer, i don't dress up everyday. I where jeans and a tee-shirt. my dad is even trying to make me do my make-up differnt. i told that i feel like he is trying to change me and i don't like it. I feel like my dad doesn't like me the way i am. I feel like i have to earn his love and it really hurts me. He has a huge ego, how can i tell how i feel without pissing him off because everytime i try i piss him off and he makes me feel bad about it. wheni am with him i can not bw my true self. please help me.
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Well if your dad really luvs you he would like you 4 who you are.Have a nice talk with him like this"dad can you please not try and change me If you luv me you would accept me for who I am."Try it!
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oh wow. my dad always does the same thing to me.. he tells me"HOW COME URE NOT SMART?! WHY DON`T YOU START HELPING AROUND THE HOUSE?!" and he yells at me. it`s sucks. i don`t think my dad likes me the way i am too. i recommend just telling ure dad the truth. tell him "dad, sometimes i feel you don`t like me the way i am. i don`t like to be changed.. i`m confident and happy w/ who i am and i want you to be happy with the way i am too..." and just have a nice long talk w/ him. and i think he won`t get pissed bc ure just expressing how you feel about him..
(: much luck
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Try sitting your dad down and talking to him. Tell him, in a calm quiet mannor, that you are you. You may be family but you are two different people, with different ideas, attitudes, and styles. Tell him you need to be yourself or else you feel like a different person. I'm sure he'll understand.
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