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i dunno?


Question Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 7:21 pm

well. me and this boy who I am in loveeee with ended up cheating on me twice :( first time with this girl and I gave them both a second chance and then when i took him back he did it agin after 10 weeks of us being together. he told my best friend who is also his BFF that rite now he just isn't "right" and he does have a lot of family problems and stuff but he did it with my BEST FRIENDDSSS and he was under the influence both times! actually one that you prolly shouln't kno but I just can't get over him I dont even kno if I want to bcuz we've done....A LOt together...if you kno what I mean and he's said the most nicest things thatany guy has said to me everrr i just don;t kno how to get him bakc and make sure he doesn't do it again or if I shuould stop which im guessing you'll say. thankss.


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thelaura answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 8:43 pm:
Having family problems is no excuse to cheat on someone. Twice.
First time can be forgiven. Second time shows he can do what he wants because you will always be there.
It can be frustrating knowing you have done " a lot" with this boy, but it doesn't seem like he has any respect for you. No doubt, he will do it again, too.
Have a break from him for a while. Who knows, you might decide it was a good decision to make to call it a day, or you may both decide you miss each other and are willing to give it one last go. It's up to you. Just don't expect him to never do it again. He's already proven he's a cheater.
Best of luck.

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xomegaroni answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 8:21 pm:
well, it is your decision. there's also that saying that goes 'once a cheater always a cheater' & he proved to do that. he cheated once & you forgave him. that was his chance. he cheated again?? i don't think he should have another. if he makes a mistake, fine, but to make the same mistake twice?? plus its a big mistake. there's also that saying 'cheat once on me, your fault, cheat twice on me, my fault'. idk if you believe those, but if he truly cared about you, do you really think he'd still cheat?? i doubt it. i think you guys should juss be friends & as for your other friends?? idk about them either. you could probably do much better without them since they did that to you.

-hope that helped!♥

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xOViLLYxO answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 7:33 pm:
Wow.. I hope you don`t think I`m coming off as a bitch but he is a player & always will be..no matter how much you don`t want to think that he is.After one time I think he should learn and not do it again.You shouldn`t try to get him back .. I know you might have done alot but there are other guys out there that won`t cheat on you.Move & and find someone new. ♥

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