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my guy friend
13, female
i have a friend (guy) and we're keeping in close touch over the summer -- emailing, phone.
i guess this isn't that important, but i still want some advice. well, in his emails he always wants me to call him. and i do.
sometimes i say things like 'im free to talk over the weekend.. call!' but he insists for me to call. no big deal, but he hasnt ever called my house or cell since we've started talking over the phone. and when im constantly the one calling his house, it makes me sound kind of desperate.
i dont want to be rude to point it out to him because maybe he wont call at all on purpose. why do some guys not like calling girls? and what are some harmless clues to get him to call ME?
note: we're friends and only friends!
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Hi, maybe your friend isn't allowed to call you because of his parents wishes. Maybe he some how feels uncomfortable calling because if your mum or dad pick up the phone he might get a wee bit embarrassed. I don't know, maybe you could ask him in proper detail. Only he knows. Daniel.
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Your problem might be as simple as his parents don't let him call anyone, but if someone calls him he can talk. Then again, maybe he's afraid that your parents will answer the phone and he'll have to talk to them.
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I don't think it's desperate for a girl to call a guy's house, in fact, that would make me extremly happy!
If he is always wanting you to call him, why not just give him a friendly tip such as: "Hey, sorry, but I can't call you right now, you can call my house if you want to..." or something along similar lines.
Some guys are afraid of talking to girls period, and the thought of calling them makes us very nervous sometimes. Perhaps he'll get over it and call you once-in-awhile.
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