I have a friend that came to me with a question but I didnt know how to answer it because it never happened to me. so i was wondering if anyone can help me help her. ok so here is the story: her and her boyfriend have been dating for a few months now and they had sex for the first time. she has always worried about having sex and then beeing dumped. well after they had sex he said to her that he feels bad cuz after sex he should be proud/happy and that he didnt. he also said that he loves her so much and doesnt want anything to happen to her but still feels bad for how things turned out. he also wanted to gie her a ring later on but said that he wants to give her something like that from the heart instead of his moms jewelry box.
now is there any chance that he will leave her and make one of her worries real?
xomegaroni answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 4:07 pm: no one can really answer this question, because all guys are different. no one can predict what he will do er won't do, that's why it's up to your friend to talk to him & see what happens. since he said he cares for her & loves her, it doesn't look like he'll leave her, but things can change. there's always a chance, but some are bigger than others. the reason he didn't feel proud/happy could mean he wasn't ready to have sex & that doesn't have to do with her. maybe she means a lot more to him than juss sex & he regrets it & wanted to wait. you never know. she needs to talk to him about it.
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