My boyfriend is Constantly working so I never get to see him the last time i saw him was Thursday and I miss him so much im crying! yeah i know well he cant call me either because hes either eating, sleeping or working so I hardly ever get to see or talk to him. i only see him on his days off (which arnt that many) Im sorry if this is a hard question to answer but what can I do? I want to see him SO BAD!! he lives in a diff. city than I do (about an hour away) and I dont know where he works at either so I cant see him or call him because he doesnt have a cell phone and no work phone. I miss him so much what can I do? and im always thinking about him and it makes me cry because i miss him so much. and another thing is sont say something like "go hang out with your friends or family because my family is out somewhere and my friends are out with THEIR boyfriends so theres no where i can go to get him off my mind im stuck at hi\ome with nothing to do, noone to call, and all i have left to do is think about him and its making me depressed. and DO NOT say break up with him because i LOVE him. is there anything i could do? anything that would make me happier? thanks i will rate and leave really good comments!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mikelaNana answered Saturday July 1 2006, 9:33 pm: Mikela thinks:
well. trying calling and leaving a message asking him to call when he gets the time and ask when his work days are. THEN. surprise him show up at his home and be like BABY I MISSED YOU!! i mean you sound like a pretty desperate woman. and despreate times call for desperate messures. but like even if that doesnt work out. meet new people. pick up a hobbie. like gardening learning to sew. i mean no matter what your going to think about him. but dont think about how you miss him think about hoe much fun it will be when you reunite keep a postitive attiude roll with the bad times. i mean its hard but this just tests your relationship and shows you how strong it is.
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ana thinks:okay. so obviously you love this guy. this is deffinatley a tough one. but if you dont have a job, and you really miss him that much might i suggest moving in with him or yall buying an apartment together, i know its a huge change but i think it could make yalls relationship alot stronger. if that wont workout the only other think i can suggest is find out where he works and give is spiratic visits, im sure if they are from you he will appreciate them. maybe even try getting a job near him.
i feel your pain and wish you the best of luck, im sure it will all work itself out.=] [ mikelaNana's advice column | Ask mikelaNana A Question ]
xXJeSsiCaXx answered Saturday July 1 2006, 8:39 pm: Nope theres not much you can do here. I know its tough, i have kinda the same problem. im at my moms for 2 weeks and i only get to talk to him on the phone. Deffinetly do not break up with him. Try meeting some new people to hang out with since all of your friends are busy. If you dont want to do that ask your boyfriend if he could take some time off of work to come and see you. or if your old enough to drive then you can go visit him before or after he goes to work. Hope i helped!
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