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what do i do i found out the my grandms is sick very sick
i only have my dad my little bro and my grandma. my mom does not live with us.my grandma is like my mom. what is going to happen if i lose her. what do i do. my dad says that she is not really sick and not to worry about it.what if she really is sick. what do i do
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i've got a friend that's like that too. his mom took off when he was a kid and he only has his dad and grandmother. his step mother isnt really in the picture alot...anyways his dad isn't in very good health nor is his grandmothers.
the only reason i mentioned all of that is that i know how you feel and to remind you that you're not alone.
life ends. sucks to hear but true. you can't worry about these things now. because if you do then it's goign to consume you to the point where you overlooked the fact that you have time now to be with her. i know that everyone will probably be telling you similiar things but it's true. it's something that you can hear but won't mean anything until you really believe it.
the problem is alot of people waste time fearing it, and don't even realize how much of it has passed them by in their fear.
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try not to think about stuff like that.. enjoy the time that she IS here. dont worry about it.. hang in there kid.
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Enjoy the time that you have with your Grandma. I worry about losing my mother ALL the time, almost every day because I cant imagine living without her. I ask her advice and life lessons so when she passes, I'll always know what she would have told me to do in any situation. Spend lots of time with her and always tell her how much you love her because you never know. She might die and you wouldnt have gotten to tell her that. Try not to worry too much, just enjoy life and your grandmother.
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listen, dont think about that right now. just wait until the moment comes...dont worry about it, live your life. When the moment does come, im sure you are going to prosper, everyone loses someone, but dont think about death and pain, just try to spend as much time with her as possible.. i hope ive helped enough
good luck
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You have to be there for your family if something does happen. I'm not sure if you're a girl or boy but if you're a girl you need to take over & be the mother. Every family needs one. If you're a boy you need to take care of your brother & father. Show that you're sad but don't let it take over your life.
Hope I helped.
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