I used to really really like this guy named ryan, we almost went out but i guess he got scared or somthing, idk, well then at this party his friend asked him if we were going out, ryan said yes and smiled at me. so everyone thought we were going out but he would never talk! i tried talking to him but he didnt talk much, then when school started someone else asked if we were going out and he said no! i was so confused and heart broken..i seriously really liked him. and now its like half a year later im with my boyfriend of 4 months and i love him but lately ive been thinking about ryan alot and i think i still like him..i always get these hints that ryan likes me but im not sure, he always stares at me, but idk what he wants. How do i find out if he really likes me and how do i get over him.
aquababe1 answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 6:29 pm: I would stay with the guy you are in a relationship with right now. You've been together for 4 monthes, so you guys are obviously in a good place. If you really loved this guy, then it makes sense that you still have feelings for him, because nobody ever forgets their first love.
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this guy Ryan sounds like a total jerk. Telling everyone you're going out, then not talking to you, then "breaking up" with you without you ever being involved in this!? He was totally using you to boost his ego. If he really liked you he would've talked to you and gotten up the courage to do something. Forget him and focus on your new boyfriend who seems to be nice. I knowt hats easier said then done, but he was a jerk and doenst deserve you to even think about him.
lalalovely17 answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 5:31 pm: Never leave the one you love for the one you like...good saying right there!!! But i think you should just talk to him and see if he likes you or not and then choose who you like better him or your boyfriend! [ lalalovely17's advice column | Ask lalalovely17 A Question ]
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